Zamindari syndrome
Rent-seeking is a way of life for some. Having coveted a vantage point for themselves, they prefer not to be disturbed. Expend minimal effort and rest other laurels. Then, believing the World to be at their feet, extract as much mileage as they possibly can.
Your coach sensitizes you to your ambivalent and self-serving disposition. Help them recognize the inherent contradictions in life and resolve their biased disposition. Vacate the comfort of living a lie and embrace the virtue of living the truth. Be true to self, eschew convenience, and live with conviction instead.